generations unfold, father to son, mother to daugther,where on leaves off, the other follows.

we are destined to repeat each other's mistakes, each other's triumphs.

for how do we see the world, if not through their lens. 

the same fears, the same desires?

do we see them as an example to follow, or as a warning of what to avoid.

choosing to live as they have, simply because its what we know, or driven to create one's own identity.

and what happens when we find them?

to be a disappointment.

can we replace them,our mothers, our fathers, or will destiny find a way to drive us back,

back to the familiar comforts of home.

工作，有难度，具有挑战，起点也不算低，经手的case很少下7位数。但是无论如何找不到太多的激情，也许工作之外对于自己想要生活的憧憬才是激情和动力之源吧。对于我来说不打麻将，不看电视长期住在那样一个小城市里！OMG，its gonna kill me。我热爱家乡，我也喜欢安静，但我更需要打破将近两年以来自己强加在自己身上的枷锁.  

命运安排着我们大家的生活，想改变却又那么无能为力。会带我去哪里？GOD BLESS

 

 

    i submitted my eassy yesterday, and now i can seat down and have a good rest and clear myself up. i just thinkin abt what i hve chaged in these 6months since i leaved my family last year.  6months are not that long, but i believe in it also can change any single person a lot,especially livin alone in this totally different and strange country . indeed, everyone i no changed a lot (excpet those people who are expericing "chinses time" here), boys and girls start to cook for themselves and try to spend money economically(very unusual). 

   anyway, things cared by men and women here maybe different. but one thing is the same, they are feeling lonely and bored.ladies start to look for the feeling of belonging and they hope they would be cared and loved. and in opposite, most of men look for sex and maybe sth else. 

   they are not strong enough. i know,it is not easy to make a people strong, especially in their heart.  however, i have never be feeling lonely here, maybe some times i feel bored, that's ok. i will make it disppear very soon. and this isnot means i m strong enough, im very weak some time, and as a man who does not wanna experience sth special in their life? especially this  place where lonely and beautiful ladies are  everywhere(not in glasogw heihei!). include me, i wanna and even ganna experience it someday when i got the chance,haha! sooo, do remember,plz do not be feeling lonely or bored, it's not good. make urself a goal and find sth to do to let ur life is full of passion, u will feel strong in ur heart. we r only in the beginning of our life, and got a long way to go!! make sure u r ready for every chance u will be facing.

 

成功对于每个人来说都是一件很向往的事情，who can we get success and how can we get through?

gernerally, a small percentage of people get success are just lucky and not talented. Most are both talented and lucky, and few were just so super talented they didnt need luck. However, talent and hard work will put you in a good position,but to get to the upper echelons of success,

i think most of us need some good luck and timing.

 

They say it takes a minute to find a special person,

an hour to appreciate them,

a day to love them,

but then an entire life to forget them.

• “To be successful in business you don’t just need a great idea — you have to sell it. Don’t be afraid to sell. Don’t think of yourself as anything but a marketer.” (Susan Sobbott) — My Take: For some this comes naturally. But for others, especially those who do not have a sales or marketing background, this can seem like the hardest thing in the world. However, most owners of successful businesses will tell you that they were their company’s main sales representative, certainly in the beginning. You have to be able to sell and market your business — don’t expect to delegate this to someone else.

• “Every brand isn’t for everybody, and everybody isn’t for every brand.” (Liz Lange) — My Take : In other words, do what small businesses do best and focus on a niche — and then own that niche. Be at the top.

• “The Web puts an exponential twist on the whole word of mouth thing, because word of mouth is now happening virally.” (Blue Man) – My Take: the Web is a megaphone. It gives you leverage and dramatically increases the spread of any talk about your business. The Web makes it easier for word of mouth to spread, and spread more quickly and more widely.

• “An inner quality that many entrepreneurs say helps them survive is optimism.” (Jean Chatzky) – My Take: optimism is the number one essential characteristic of successful entrepreneurs. There are so many things that can go wrong when you own your own business, especially in the early years. Every single day is littered with stumbling blocks and reasons to call it quits. You have to be driven by a belief that things will work out well in the end.

• “If you had to choose an address, it would be on the corner of Art and Commerce.” (Mario Batali) – My Take: This is perhaps the single most unique quote of the event. It means, turn your business into an art form. Being creative is at the core of successful businesses.

• “A little personality goes a long way.” (Jean Chatzky) – My Take: The theme of this Forum is “standing out from the crowd.” Letting your personality show through is a way to make your business stand out. People remember you and thus your business. Instead of trying to be a corporate clone, be different. For instance, Mario Batali lets his personality show through by always wearing shorts and orange clogs. Maybe we don’t all want to go that far, but ….

• “Be aggressive in getting media coverage.” (Liz Lange) – My Take: Media coverage is free, which is a very attractive price tag for most small businesses. But media coverage usually is not an accident. You have to take it in your own hands to get coverage. And as Liz’s experience illustrated, you have to be creative in order to get media coverage. For instance, Liz sent maternity clothes to celebrities. The media were more likely to cover a celebrity wearing Liz’s maternity clothes, than to write an ordinary article about maternity clothing.

• “Follow your bliss.” (Blue Man) — My Take: In a way this is like the old saying, do what you love and money will follow. Of course the reason it is an OLD saying is that there is truth to it. When we are passionate about what we do our passion gets translated into creativity, into the amount of effort we devote to the business, and into many other factors big and small.

• “We are all competing against mediocrity.” (Blue Man) — My Take: Instead of focusing on the competition, strive for a higher level of creativity. To create a great business create something extraordinary, instead of falling into a rut and settling for average.

• “Everyone talks about growing the business, but what you don’t hear enough about is the importance of not growing the business too fast.” (Blue Man) — My Take: Growth can bring on its own set of challenges and problems. Grow the business at the pace that feels right to you to manage and handle. If you are comfortable with fast change, then grow it fast. Otherwise, keep the business smaller and more manageable for you. Not everyone wants to grow their business.

 

 

    英语给我带来了如此大的障碍~呵呵！真是有点晕！丢掉了好几个机会了！

    what can i do？

    开始实习了，才开始还有点不习惯吧！呵呵``刚到办公室有点手足无措的，慢慢就会熟悉的！珍惜这次机会！

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      又到一年两次的黄金周，大多数朋友又在安排旅游,或者去哪里happy了。7天的，哦对我来说应该是9天。实在没有激情啊！在寝室看看书，睡睡觉肯定比人山人海的好！

      记得那年去贵阳、西安都是在黄金周，除了人实在是没有看到些什么！呵呵~没有意义！

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      音乐是从自己的服务器链过来的，上海的核心骨干机房，速度应该还行吧！

      加上洗衣服，弄了一半天~~要酸背痛！睡了一下午！ >

     好久没有运动了，踢踢球活动一下身体还是不错地(其实被逼无奈了，一天生活备受煎熬呀)！

            不过踢球的时候遇到一傻比,,,说什么学院踢比赛，预定了场地 要我们让一下,,,,,晕！态度好点可能还差不多，态度那么恶劣，那么不得了的 肯定不可能让咯！

        虽然没有进球，不过还过得去吧，呵呵，曾经的黄金4号左后卫（初中）！！免得一天对着电脑屏幕 要疯掉了！

      早上才提起的两张专辑拿到手了~呵呵！一张打了好大一个口！还好不影响视听，另外一张还没有开封。

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